In life friends come and go but the ones that stick around are few and far between. Friends fall out, make up, move on and we make new ones, that’s just part of life. There’s nothing wrong with that and there doesn’t necessarily have to be anything wrong with the friendship, sometimes we just drift a part because our paths are taking us in different directions and that’s ok. I’ve grown to learn to accept these things in life and not worry about the moments or the things that we have no power over and cannot change. I like to surround myself with good people, ones that lift me up and make me a more whole version of myself. It can be hard to leave those that aren’t helping us to grow and develop just because we fear letting go. I build my friends up and encourage them to grow along with me. You don’t always need to be with your friends every single day to know that they are there for you.
It can be so difficult to let go of those friends that aren’t good for you and I get that first hand. I’ve never really ‘conquered’ the technique of letting go of those kinds of people accept just slowly distancing yourself from them. Letting go of the good old memories and realising that there are better memories to be made with better people that are more suited to you. If you leave these people behind you don’t have to leave the good times, you’ll have those memories for the rest of your life and sometimes that’s enough. We need to invest our time more in those who love us and who want to be part of our lives. Hang out with the best people for your happiness, make a collaborative project together, go to the cinema, go for a long drive, just be around those who want to be around you for the right reasons. That’s how we should live, without fear of upsetting others and without feeling guilty for leaving behind the rubbish that we no longer need. Good people are always around and you can find them if only you open your mind to new ideas and meet new people. If you send out positive vibes into the universe then you will be met with the same vibes in return. This life is so temporary so make the most out of all the little moments and don’t waste your time on people who don’t care about you or bring a negative light into your life.